Saturday, July 08, 2006

How to be a good Queen?


The question isn't that simple as You may think at first. You can be a Queen only because of the title but You can also be a real Queen- dedicated to her duties, proud of her Nation, with faultless manners and style. Here are some rules to help You achieve this status:

1. Family background- aristocratic or even royal. You learn Your do's and don't from the infant(if You are a royal infant or an earl it's even better). You feel the athmosphere. Touch the very core of being the elite. If You are born in the ,,ordinary" family- don't worry. Maybe You will meet a Crown Prince someday? But what You have to remember- love, passion and open mind is crucial here.

2. Education- higher is a must. Political, sociological, psychological, law, diplomacy are the most usefull but if You are a dedicated botanist or keen car mechanic choose these ways of education. What I am getting at is that a Queen has to represent something by her level of knowledg at least in one field because she has to be an authority for her Nation. And she can have a topic to discuss with her guests.

3. Manners- absolutely basis for a real Queen. Behaving, behaving and behaving. You have to show who You are from Your every move and gesture. During the official meals, visits, talks, speeches and also in Your ,,private'' life, behind the scenes when almost anyone can see you.

4. Feeling- that You are a Queen of the Commonwealth, defender of the faith etc. and not the undertaker or a film star. If not- abdicate. You have to believe in the fact that You are predestinied to this role. And so be it.